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The phrase "luxury hospitality" is meaningless today

Lifestyle or design-led retail businesses should not be conflated as "luxury hospitality".

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Nadine @ The Stanza
Feb 06, 2026
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Hello everyone, happy Friday.

What does the phrase “luxury hospitality”, mean to you? Some people think the $600/night lifestyle city hotel with nice design and mediocre service is “luxury”. Others (like myself), would disagree and say that if you have to pay a fee to use the sauna or if there are any DIY elements, it doesn’t matter how chic the design is or how vibey the lobby is, it’s not luxury.

I had a funny email interaction this week with a PR person who was trying to pitch me a new dentistry practice in NY. For context, this dentistry looks akin to a VC-backed wellness club in the way that it approaches positioning and customer experience.

I wrote back with: “Thank you for your kind words. Unfortunately I don't accept inbound interview requests and I only focus on luxury hospitality.”

Her response: “Noted on inbounds. [REDACTED BUSINESS NAME] is a luxury, hospitality focused wellness destination. I thought it would be a fit.”

Since when is your dentist a “luxury hospitality focused wellness destination”? And since when does the phrase “luxury hospitality” pertain to anything outside of hotels and F&B? Is my gym or my skincare clinic a “luxury hospitality” business too? If the Chanel store serves me champagne while I shop and provides good assistance, does that mean that Chanel now a “luxury hospitality” business?

Is hospitality so hot that we have to position everything consumer facing as such for it to sound compelling? Sure, any business can integrate elements of good hospitality in their customer experience, but I’m afraid that describing any retail business as “hospitality” and anything design-led as “luxury” makes the original phrase lose its meaning.

To me, “luxury hospitality” describes specifically a hotel or F&B experience in which:

  • the staff are really good at anticipating your needs and therefore reduce decision fatigue

  • the materials are thoughtfully chosen to optimize for visual harmony, comfort, and patina over time

  • there is consistency in the quality of the rooms and F&B experience

  • a sense of abundance, whether that’s a free mini bar, indulgent spa experience included in the room rate, complimentary rides to the nearby town, etc

  • “surprise & delight” and gifts that make you feel seen and taken care of

I’m sure I could add a few more things to this list, but at the heart of what merits a hospitality business to be labeled as luxury, besides its price, are mostly these key elements. For additional context, I’m clarifying here how I personally define “luxury hospitality” ahead of an exciting announcement towards the end of this month. My inbox is open to discussion; just reply directly to this email.


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  • The future of wellness hospitality: what will be the benchmark in 15 years?

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